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Author: Kevin Baker @ 09/24/09 - 02:33 am |
What are the dynamics of relationships? They are derived from the motivations of why you create them. The balance of relationships comes from just that , give and take. Healthy relationships take effort on both parts or the end is always the same. Dwindled to ashes like a smoldering fire unattended.
We have many relationships which come about for many various reasons. What I find most rewarding is nurturing the ones that start healthy and keep them that way. The ones that start unhealthy. Press restart and remind you that we only need ourselves.
Dynamics
* Main Entry: dy·nam·ics
* Pronunciation: \dī-ˈna-miks\
* Function: noun plural but singular or plural in construction
* Date: circa 1789
1 : a branch of mechanics that deals with forces and their relation primarily to the motion but sometimes also to the equilibrium of bodies
2 : a pattern or process of change, growth, or activity
3 : variation and contrast in force or intensity (as in music)
The dynamics of our relationships is the root of our motivations for being in any relationship. Not only in music do we play the dynamics of life We do this with each other to create that symphony of energy that progresses to the climax of mutual nurturing. We are social beings. We nurture each other emotionally, mentally as well as physically however the most important nurturing that becomes invaluable to any human is the nurturing of the soul.
That is the difference of knowing what spirituality really is.
Spirituality is something we grow into, it does not come from a box or with warranty.
To make the most of any relationship , consider that dynamic of your motivation. Does it really include your spirituality? IF it does not, no matter how hard you work at it, the relationship will fade, some disappear.
Take stock in your dynamics. Inventory if you will. Like the building blocks of foundation in a building. It will last as long as you prepare it to. Our rewards in life are in exact proportion to our efforts. Harsh reality yes however still reality.
The dynamics of any relationship will determine its eventual maturing or demise.
What is a gift , if there are strings attached. I call that an obligation.
View your self with objectivity and remove that emotional ego when your taking stock.
Swish cheese holds no water and a true relationship does just that. Solid and holds water.
Till next time, wishing you well, tips hat.
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