How to achieve being the audience all comes down to the sophistication of your prose.

Before I type a word, I put my self out in the audience and feel how it is to be heard.

Not with my ears, with my skin, my heart, my inner person hood.

I desire to create empathy.

If empathy is achieved, there is a response. A nod. A smile. An expression of concern. Etc etc.

How to achieve being the audience all comes down to the sophistication of your prose.

More often then not I am guilty of limiting the empathy required to illicit a response by trying to find words that have deeper meaning, cause I am lazy. If I can type an article with more sophisticated words, I do not have to type as many.

And this works for and against my intentions.

If I can reach you to think past what you expected, I have your attention.

If I can reach you to empathize I have your attention.

The more I focus on my intentions of perception as the audience, the more communication I achieve.

It is so easy to just blurb out what I see, feel, perceive as the intentions of me are for the most part quite clear to myself.

What used to be very hard for me was to perceive the intentions of perception of who may read this.

The more I write and speak the less hard it is and the sophistication of my words that I type become more and more like when I am engaged in every day conversation.

As this sophistication of intention becomes a layman's conversation, I write less fragmented. It becomes easier to risk vulnerability and share of my inner person hood.

My writing and my public speaking becomes closer to one voice.

I put less investment of attention in the fears of how my words are received.

Emotionally based fears are illusions, the symptoms of a disease I call doubt.

Both the sender and the receiver are both the audience.

When writing or speaking we are sending and receiving at the same time.

As the audience we are receiving and sending at the same time.

Communication is a two way street. The why I say once the sender and the receiver have congruent perception success is imminent.

The level of depth we share of vulnerability is a learned behavior. All behavior is learned. Or you would not be capable of creating it.

When confronted with unexpected vulnerability that is raw, the knee jerk response is anger for being put in a paradox of heavy responsibility to respond in kind.

Why did you just do that. Now I have to be vulnerable back and I am not prepared.

The level of attention to the sender is decreased.

When confronted with unexpected vulnerability that is light hearted, the response is like a breath of fresh air and the level of attention to the sender is elevated.

In conclusion and never the end, tip's hat.

The audience has brought me to a more enjoyable level of being heard by listening to you.

Remember 90% of people who read or hear you , do not respond.

9% will respond and give reflections of the empathy communicated.

!% will be changed and never forget.